*** How To Stop A Woman Anywhere And Meet Her
***
Something that just might make
you take a new perspective and think about things in a way you've never
thought about them before... something that just might stir you up enough
to get you to take some ACTION...
First, I'd like you to think about the last time you saw a really
attractive woman, you wanted to go over and talk to her, but for whatever
reason you just didn't do it. I'm talking about a REALLY hot one.
Take your time if you need it. I'm not going anywhere.
Good.
Now, let me ask you something:
Did you ever stop a day or two after one of these situations happened to
think about where that particular woman might be, and what she might be
doing?
Did you ever stop to think about what the rest of her day was like after
she walked by you?
About the ten or twenty other men that saw her that day who didn't have
the nerve to talk to her... and the two or three that did...?
About the most-likely BORING job that she went to, the same-old-same-old
"Wow, you're beautiful" lines that she heard from the guys who got up the
nerve to talk to her?
Did you ever consider that it might be useful to take a little time out
and consider what it might be like to be an attractive woman, walking
through life having almost every man you see light up with the "Whoa"
look?
Hmmm...
What do you think we might be able to figure out if we just took a few
minutes to explore what that attractive woman's PRIVATE life is like?
Here are a few things that I've come up with:
1) Most attractive women are BORED OUT OF THEIR MINDS by most men. One of
the reasons for this is that guys have NO IDEA what to do when they run
into an attractive woman, so they do the same default thing: Dumb look,
compliment.
2) As I've said before, and I'm sure I'll say many many many times in the
future: You can't BORE a woman into feeling attracted to you. If she's
most likely got a boring life like everyone else, and you do something
that every one of the other 499 guys she's going to walk by this month
did, then you're probably not going to attract any special attention.
3) If you just start with the idea of NOT DOING WHAT OTHER GUYS DO you
will be WAAAAYYYY ahead of the game.
Wow, this is fun, isn't it? Bet you never thought you'd be thinking like a
woman, did ya? So what are a few things you might do to:
1) Not be like the other 499 boring, predictable, "nice" loser guys she
encountered.
2) Be interesting, attractive, attention-getting in a way that makes her
feel like you might actually be someone to provide her with a pinch of
spice for her life?
I thought you'd never ask...
And, as you may have already predicted, I have a few ideas of my own (but
don't let that stop you from thinking about this on your own as often as
you get a chance).
To start with, you'd probably want to get rid of the "Wow, you're a
beautiful woman, and I'm just an average guy admiring you" vibe. That's
not helping. Next, you could take a moment and think about how a guy that
she would feel ATTRACTED to might act... then choose that style.
My experience is that if you take an attitude of "I guess fate has good
taste putting us in the same place, now let's see if you have a
personality to match your looks", then stir in a generous portion of Cocky
and Funny, you're likely to do well.
Here's a variation of something I've used myself once or twice.
YOU: "Hey, can I ask you a quick question?" [leaning back and playing it
cool, talking cool and slow]
HER: "Sure"
[pause pause pause for suspense]
YOU: "Are you single?" [stone cold straight face]
HER: "Well, um..."
YOU: "I'll take that as a yes..." [nodding, sly smile]
HER: [Laugher]
YOU: "Well, I just happen to know someone that I think might really like
you... if you're more than just a pretty face, that is... He's funny, has
great taste, and I think you'd like him... I'd love to sit down and get
your life story, but I'm on my way somewhere... do you have email?" [very
cool, calm tone of voice]
HER: "Yes."
YOU: Great... [takes out pen]... write it down for me, and I'll have, uh
[clears throat] HIM send you an email."
[Get email and wish the lady a good day.]
Now, let's talk about what just happened here.
First off, did I give her any compliments? Did I act like the other 499
guys? Did I instantly communicate that "I'm not worthy"?
HELL NO.
I said "Hey, can I ask you a quick question?" in a very laid-back, almost
too-relaxed and mysterious tone of voice.
Anyone will respond to that with a "yes".
Next, I did something kind of fun: I asked her DIRECTLY if she was single.
LOL... I really love this one. It's so fun. Most guys will say "Uh, I'll
bet you have a boyfriend, huh?" or "So do you have a man?" or some other
lame thing. The question "Are you single?" takes women off guard. It's
great. And then being assumptive when she hesitated with an answer... in a
cocky/funny way... magic.
Next I followed up with a cocky, funny, semi-confusing little bit about
"knowing someone" that might find her interesting. Now, she might think
that it's really ME, but she won't know FOR SURE until she gets the email.
And even then you might play with her a bit... "So, what did you think of
my friend? I think he might like you..." etc. The point is, I can pretty
much guarantee you that this particular sequence hasn't happened to her
lately. She's still trying to overcome her sheer awe about how many guys
in a row can ask "Don't I know you from somewhere?"
This kind of fun approach will be a welcome breath of fresh air.
Now, I want you to do something. Go back and READ IT AGAIN... VERY
CAREFULLY. Imagine it happening exactly like it's written. Try to imagine
it in a few different settings. Work on it until you can clearly see it
happening in your mind's eye. (The reason I can see it clearly is because
I've done it so many times in real life!)
OK, so now you know how to approach women.
Fantastic.
I can remember when I first learned how to start approaching women... I
thought that if I could just start conversations easily, the rest of it
would be a snap. Well, after meeting a lot of women, but not getting so
many dates... and not having the few dates I did get go anywhere... I
realized that there was a lot more to it.
 The reality is that success with women comes down to understanding female
psychology, knowing the entire "mating game" front to back, and then
knowing all the specific techniques and steps you need to take at each
moment with a woman.
And there's only one place in the world I know of that you can learn all
of this information quickly, easily, and thoroughly...
http://www.doubleyourdating.info/ebook
I'll talk to you again in a couple of days.
Your Friend,
David D. |
